This is a story of about two dogs. Both seperately walked into same room. One came out wagging its tail while the other one came growling. A women saw the dogs coming out and was curious to know why the dogs are having different reactions. To her surprise she found a room filled with mirrors. The happy dog found thousand happy dogs smiling at him where as the growling dog found thousand unhappy dogs growling at him. What you see in the world around you is a reflection of who you are.
A successful women was asked to share her secret of success. She smiled and said “I started succeeding when I started leaving small fights for small fighters. I stopped fighting for those who gossiped about me. I stopped fighting with my in-laws. I stopped fighting for attention. I stopped fighting to meet public expectation of me. I stopped fighting for my rights with stupid people. I left fights for those who have nothing else to fight. And I started fighting for my vision, my dreams, my ideas and my destiny. The day I gave up on my all fights, I started become successful. Some fights are not worth our time.”
In today’s world, people cannot see each other climbing stairs of success. Every one is trying to pull other’s leg down. Some gets jealous and some cannot appreciate others.
Rather than using their energy to get better than the other,they are using their energy to think of strategies to let other one down.
They forget, that a day would come when they want to be appreciated, but they won’t be. There is a simple logic, what we give, we will be reciprocated.
Its very important to get happy with others success. It is a waste of time, if we are cluttering our brain with negative thoughts.
By appreciating others we are likely to create those thoughts for us also.
We should make sure to appreciate 3 people every day. So that after 21 days, it becomes our habit. It doesn’t matter who you are appreciating wife, mother, children, employee, maid, etc. Appreciate them, and you can feel the magic in your life too.